As much as it pains me to be considered ‘lame’, it’s my choice, and there’s nothing immoral about making it.
Judgement, discrimination, etc. have not always been dirty words.
did I say you were immoral? NO. did I say don’t have judgement or discrimination NO. Yes it is your choice, but considering how hard it is to find competent help these days, it seems that you are not only cutting off your nose to spite your face, but teaching your children bad habits for the wrong reasons.