Ha ha, shame on me for not running a ten page character profile on every service employee that I anticipte contact with for less than twenty minutes. Yes, I judge service people by the aura they choose to project. A flannel & jeans wearin saleswoman might be great fun as a friend, but I’m not going to ask her opinions about lingerie. I wouldn’t ask a biker guy about make-up. I wouldn’t ask a gay man to help me choose a lawnmower. Might they be experts in their fields? Sure. Do I have half an hour to strike up a conversation with them, delve into their past, and find out whether they majored in cosmetology or mechanical engineering? No.
I just don’t care that much.
Everyone gets judged; the only way to avoid it is to ‘say nothing, do nothing, be nothing’. If you don’t like the way you’re percieved, then change your appearance. Otherwise, just sit back and enjoy it.
Anyway, for alot of people, having a gay hairdresser would be a positive thing. Does that mean people that choose him over the woman are mean and judgemental, too?
“I just don’t care that much”
and I think that one statement tells me everything I need to know about you. You are the only loser in this situation, by making your 10 second assesments of your fellow human beings, you are missing out on lots of intelligence and insight and interesting people, who might be able to help you out with what you seek. But you’d rather hurry along in life, being constantly negative and assuming the worst. They won’t miss being around you, that’s for sure. Hope you don’t have kids you’re passing your bad attitude on to.