Posted on 09/24/2009 7:16:10 PM PDT by NormsRevenge
I got my fair dose of spanking growing up. How come I am so brilliant ?
Maybe smart kids figure their parents out ... and prevent spankings.
Alternate alternate title: Smart kids are dumb kids spanked into smartness
Instead of the parent telling the kid what should be done, or how to correct the behavior, maybe the parent resorts to just being a bully and hitting him instead.
I don’t mean to sound like a whiny liberal, but that’s usually what happened to me. My mom would just go off into a rage instead of telling us what the problem was and how we could do things correctly.
The abuse is something that definitely stays with you, so I can see how the results of the study were what they were.
Maybe they’re spanking the wrong ends.
I did notice as a child that the folks who used to FREQUENTLY beat their kids in public weren’t exactly the classiest folks and were usually from the shallower end of the gene pool.
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We used to call them ‘K-Mart Kids’ in these parts. However.......I found out (in public) when dealing with an ‘unruly child’ that the ‘Spock Death Grip’, with a stern look, works pretty well....and SILENTLY to boot. That ‘brachial nerve’ is sensitive, ya’ know. ;-)
I think getting my butt spanked all the time not only raised my I.Q. but it also helped me to become a fast learner. I learned quickly not to do that anymore! LOL!
>>I did notice as a child that the folks who used to FREQUENTLY beat their kids in public weren’t exactly the classiest folks and were usually from the shallower end of the gene pool.<<
I fully agree with you.
If you can’t think of any other form of punishment and beat on your kid in public constantly, you may not have the highest IQ.
And some kids learn quicker than others. That’s all there is to it.
I’ll post what I always say: it depends on the kid.
It’s the researcher that has the lower IQ.
2.8 points is insignificant to the point of being unmeasurable.
Avg IQ is considered between 90 and 110. There is a range, because measuring IQ is an inexact science at best.
Our two oldest are an MD who went to Northwestern med school and an engineer from the University of Michigan (top ten engineering school, hard to get into). They were spanked. Our nephew has an MBA from Harvard. He was spanked.
Our two nephews who weren't spanked joined scientology.
And spanking children frequently is part and parcel of the culture at the lower end of the socioeconomic spectrum, where IQ is statistically lower as well.
My father used to quote Machiavelli at us “Terror is cheaper than Force.”
We lived in absolute dread when we messed up remembering those two times we got it, and hoping there would never be a third. There never was.
I believe this like a ‘hole in the head’!!
I was spanked and grew up a decent and law abiding person. I spanked my 4 children and they are all good, Christian, law abiding people.
Look at the younger generation now, loose morals, foul mouths. Look at the schools where the kids have sex in the stairwells and fight each other. I could rant on forever on this topic.
Yep. My favorite trick was to admit to a lesser infraction. Worked every time.
That is not even a statistically significant difference.
My deepest apologies. ;-) I meant ‘Mr. Spock’. Gawd.......Freudian slip....and what-not. LOL!
This is totally backwards. Kids with higher IQs know how to avoid getting spankings!
People commended his parenting based upon reason and understanding, not knowing the iron grip of death.
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