Especially if litigation is on the horizon.
I doubt if litigation is going to happen. I believe my ex has seen the writing on the wall. Like I said, our 14y/o son is moving in with me after this school year and our two sons are very close. If the youngest son is very unhappy in his situation and his brother is living with me and his mother refuses to let him come live with me, he will be so full of rage and anger, that she will not be able to deal with him. She can really deal with him now, but our other son helps keep him in line which shouldn’t be his job. I would help more, but I live too far away to be much good.
I get them every other weekend and do what I can do to teach him to respect his mother, but if she doesn’t demand it from him, I’m fighting a losing battle.