Our jobs as parents are to teach independence. I had this same dilemma when my son returned home after his first marriage broke up.
Since his reasons for staying with me included getting back out on his own, I saw that by allowing too many ‘conveniences’ at home as a block to his independence. He quickly became motivated to seek better employment AND alternative living quarters when the desire for a sleepover with girlfriend was denied at home.
I believe that, too. Why would I make the place too comfortable for him when my goal is for him to eventually get out?
I have to do my best to replicate the real world for him.