Is it love or lust? Go with the lust first and if the spark is still there in 9 1/2 weeks then see where you stand. If she hasnt show signs of awakening by then, run dont walk away. You may thank me/us for this someday. Otherwise you risk falling asleep next to the pod and waking up with your soul gone.
Spot on, DogBarkTree.
One more suggestion to the poster. Promise the object of your affections that you’ll read “The Audacity of Hope” or any other book of her choosing if she will read ANY book by Thomas Sowell. Sit down together and read. When you’re both done, I guarantee you’ll have your woman, and a soulmate, to boot.