It has worked out pretty well for me. I do watch and listen to others, along with having my own experiences and when I have seen and heard ( from people I trust) and felt and seen enough on my own, I make a decision.
As far as aliens from outer space are concerned, I have seen nothing and have not heard anything that would turn me into a believer........... but I am still watching and waiting. It could happen.
Good. Glad it’s better than I expected.