People jump to idiotic conclusions all the time. Back when I was working, I overheard my boss talking about me to a couple of my coworkers. They were discussing how much weight I was putting on, how I was moving around slowly...when they started to mull over “maybe she’s having problems at home,” I made my presence known and let them know I was seven months pregnant, as any idiot could pretty plainly see. They seemed to like the “marital troubles” explanation better, even knowing the facts. Dumb bunch of broads they were.
Additionally odd--the comment I'd posted on the forum, just previous to my #89, was on a SJP thread. Strange!