I don’t know about you but I find cats to be very bossy. <<<
Yes, so do I.
When they want fed or a treat, I find that it is me, who will wind up with blood dripping and them with the treat.
If you want to drive a bossy cat wild, chew gum.
LOL, it confuses them, you are not putting anything in your mouth and yet they can hear you chewing....something.
Bossy cat, even looks mean.