I have been here 4 months longer than you. You are resorting to an age old technique here, in which someone loses an argument, then they see how long the person with the superior has been here. If their time is shorter, they resort to the newbie move. However, in this cae, you're just piling on your mistakes. How does it feel, defender of the weak, to realize you may be the one who needs help?
The rest of your post is just more victim apologias.
See you next week. You can decide which adult will need help at that time and spend your energy where you will.