Sorry to hear about your dad. This has to be a very stressful time for you and your family. I hope your dad is not suffering.
We are so blessed that he is not suffering much pain with his cancer. So far Tylenol has sufficed.
We had a family party for my Mom & Dad’s 60th anniversary this past February and are so glad we decided to go ahead and have it. He’s going to a nursing home today for a few days until we can get things lined up at home with care. The kids are talking about taking him down to one of the ponds by his house to fish - something he loves. He may only be able to sit in the chair for 15 min or so, but I think if we can manage it, he would love it.