Oh, I think Barack loves her very much. I was touched by how much they held hands yesterday and last night during the balls. I don't think you can fake the way he looked at her when they danced. I like her, and I LOVE the girls. I thought she was wonderful at the DNC convention - better than him, in fact. And the dress she wore for that speech was fantastic. She looks very good in simple, straight dresses and suits in jewel tones.
Her attire choices so far are telling me she isn't really down with the whole First Lady thing at all.