I am sure both of your sons are wonderful!!
I thank the Lord everyday for the fine men they have turned out to be. We did spank our kids when they were little and were bad. We punished them as the Bible tell us to do! We never hurt them....they always loved us a little while after the spankings. Well, we called them whippings back then but whippings sounds worse than spankings. And know what, Polly, I got a few whippings too when I was growing up. When I did something I wasn't supposed to or talked back to my parents......I got it. I loved the ground my parents walked on and took care of them when they were old.