Revolvers are not sexy and they are for close in shooting. they have short barrels so they are not target shooting pistols. Really for shooting within 20 feet or less.
They are reliable and mistake proof in a defensive situation when people are very stressed. Someone said a Beratta Tomcat semi-auto does not have to have the slide racked. If true check that out.
Find a lady instructor or sales person at you local gun store or the NRA web site.
I agree completely. Good post.