And “properly process(ed) grief” is transformative.
Why else would that revered philosopher Charles M. Schultz have continuously reminded us of the benefits of “Good Grief”?
* Sigh. Have yet to get around to sorting the collection. Right now the Russian shelf (fiction & nonfiction both, excluding Russian SF) is right next to the political/philosophy shelves, right across from the now-ancient technology shelf (early 70s IC catalogs and design guides plus ca 1960 vacuum-tube technical catalog). And the Persian shelf is between the Bible/Christian shelves and the French-language books... you get the picture.