Thanks everyone. We’ve just had the first of several long evenings talking things over with the siblings (save the brother who almost never visited who will be offended that things were decided while he wasn’t here). The family dramas are unfolding. More will come.
Indeed. Sorry to hear that's starting so soon. Here's a giant "ARGH!!!" on your behalf. And continued prayers.
We'd expect nothing less!
Seriously, though, take care of yourself.