Sounds like you ain’t over her to me perhaps, so you oughta quit trying to fill the void in vane. Good things come to those that move on for themselves and find peace with themselves first. No woman, no matter how great and wonderful can fix it, and no woman that has her life grounded in reality and stability will want to fix it. No woman will want to hear and deal with your struggles and hardships regarding previous situations. All of this in my very own opinion of course, which can be wrong certainly.
That was my first thought as well. Of course I'm probable wrong but his post of late had this feeling about them.