You asked the question in the title...”what happens when...?”
Well, speakign form very recent experience...
-you get your heart broken
-you see that thsi person is the creature of theri own making...not ours
-you feel terribly sorry to see here destroy herself
-you recognize that if she doesn’t want to help her, you certainly can’t.
-you recognize that since she care so little for herself, how can you expect her to care for you? You can’t expect it.
-you steel your heart for a bit more hurt and confusion to come as you heal.
-you change your habits ot include new activites that restore YOUR soul and YOUR self worth. You cannot change hers, but you can build yours. Do that.
-You steer clear of places and circumstances where you’d see her, or hear from her.
-As time goes on, you ask about her less and less. You vist her myspace page less and less. You check up her less and less.
-As time goes on, you let her go.
Someone here at FR gave me some very good advice. Freeper AperfectLady warned me that my X owuld turn up at a later date appealign for “help” and that she would attmpt to manipulate my emotions. She was 100% correct. It happened. A couple of times.
Be forewarned. Steel your heart.
My pastor has said that it is beter to be single nad happy than married to Miss Wrong.
And when Miss Right comes along, you do not want her to see Miss Wrong on your arm.
Best wishes friend.
Now get your a$$ back to church this Sunday!
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A perfect lady and I have been flirtatious for many years here. I owe her an apology. In one of Karen-and-my infamous and steady ‘cycles’, I approached a_p_l on the ‘down side’ of one of those cycles. It was unfair to her. When the Karen/Larry engine kicked back in, I was right back off with Karen.
Please accept my apology.
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