marinate, marinate, marinate :)
I can't claim the same first marriage as defconw, but I can claim a similarity in husbands :)
I was in the process of divorcing a man who couldn't even boil water when I met the absolute love of my life. Not only can he cook, but he's like me in that he enjoys experimenting in the kitchen!!!! 20 years later we are still having a blast together, not only in the bedroom, but in the kitchen, in the garden, on the fishing pier, on the shooting range, and everywhere in between.
I can’t claim the same first marriage as defconw, but I can claim a similarity in husbands :)<<<
Not many of us can claim to still be with the first husband.
As you age, you will see that life has been planned and you needed the experience, or you would not have known when you met the right one.
It is amazing how even a different road, can change peoples lives.