I have not listened to the tape.
I do not care who others date or have sex with or marry.
I would prefer they be responsible....especially about the eventual outcome of coupling.
However, it is more common than not the world over that folks (this includes parents) prefer to date or marry within their group.
Folks who prefer to buck that trend are free to do so but should not consider those who do not bigoted by default.
I do not think that makes a racist...but that’s just me and I confess readily to not being obsessed about racism anyhow and think it is far far far overplayed and overemphazised and that it has basically emasculated educated whites from being realistic and at the same time enabled non whites to say anything....except offend homosexuals (see: Isaiah Washington)
So....Doggie....hmmm....I’m ambivalent...don’t much care to tell the truth.
Lot more important things that some sorta crude unusual white folks saying tacky things.....
In this case, it was a private conversation made public. I do have a problem with that.