This is a pretty friendly group of people. We don’t often lose our tempers with one another, nor dress people down in the public forum. When you accused Blueplum of lying yesterday, I was startled. It injects a note of unkindness. There are sights like Crime Library where argumentation in anger is quite acceptable. FR is my only posting site on the ANS saga precisely because we’ve been able to avoid unfriendly jabs. That’s all Fatima is saying. Be tolerant, give the other person the benefit of the doubt, hold your temper. I stood up for you when others have been accusatory before, but this time I think you were unfair. Try to remember that we are not each others’ enemies. Even the newcomers are innocent until proven guilty. And maybe some “newcomers” have been around longer than you think anyway, like me.