I remember learnning once in an NLP class I took - Neuro-Linguistic Programming - that when someone hugs you and pats you while doing it, that the hug is insincere.
They’re either uncomfortable with you or deceiving you. Men are notorious about this, which I think is more from discomfort at hugging.
Anyway, I noticed HKS is always patting Dannielynn, even when she doesn’t need burping. And that horrible clip of him holding her and crying, I think when he told her over and over that her momma is dead - he is gripping that child so hard I’m afraid she’s going to pass out.
And she really looks like she already has. She wasn’t asleep, just totally out of it and a little “dead weight,” not moving a muscle. It is scary to see.
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Anyway, I noticed HKS is always patting Dannielynn, even when she doesn’t need burping. And that horrible clip of him holding her and crying, I think when he told her over and over that her momma is dead - he is gripping that child so hard I’m afraid she’s going to pass out.
And she really looks like she already has. She wasn’t asleep, just totally out of it and a little “dead weight,” not moving a muscle. It is scary to see.
Yep that was really horrible. Haven’t seen it since LB was declared Daddy. Maybe my stomach could take reviewing it again. You identified most of what I remember as the most offensive parts. . . especially the WRONG manner of patting and his repeating that her Mom was Dead. It sounded, hmmm, more congratulatory, or like affiming something, not even grieving. It sort of sounded like people would sound when they’d accomplished or survived something together( like getting off a mountain after a plane crash) and they would be saying to each other, “we did it, we did it” or “you did it, you did it.” IMO