[Arizona Carolyn]

I can understand that suspicion, my own father quit a high paying job so he wouldn't have to pay child support.... my mother placed my middle sister and myself into an orphanage for a while as a result and lived in a boarding house with my baby sister until she got on her feet...My grandparents )fathers parents) were well to do and found us and brought us to live with them in the interim, but my grandmother never failed to denegrate our mother to us when she had a chance...

There is a great deal that goes on in families that never meets the eye and probably good reason to look at everyone with a little suspicion.

[kcw2007]

OK...now I apologize to you. I never meant to make it sound like I had more life experience than anyone, and I really like everyone here. So please know that I truly appreciate all of the life experiences everyone here has gone through, and how it helps each of you (us, I hope in the future) to give your opinions and come to your own conclusions regarding everything in your life (not just ANS stuff!!). So, AC, I apologize to you as well, and appreciate that you made a point to ‘put me in my place’...Thank you, and I sincerely meaning it!