Good for you for explaining. Remember the saying? "There's something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man." The ones that are uneducated about horses and spout off, stay uneducated and should stay away from horses.
You two are doing a certain amount of ignorant spouting off yourself. Becky rides, has more hours in the saddle every week than many people I know. Doesn't mean she can't express her own thoughts and fears about people who, in her view, take risks she wouldn't take.
Ease up.
Please see post #64:)
Becky