Or as I told Ratboy here a while back:
Whenever a wife or husband is murdered, the first suspect is ALWAYS the surviving spouse.
Who else knows you well enough to want to kill you???
Well, I give ya that. 'tis true, the spouse is the first suspected.
Everybody's ex is pond-scum.
Mine is. : ) Actually, we get along fine now that we're not married....and as long as I never asked for anything for the children....and..... lol.