No, I mean like someone who asks a spouse to drop in-progress chores and bring a purse that's just out of arm's reach.
The appropriate response to that is to fall on the floor laughing.
If she gets pissed and threatens to leave, offer to help her find a new boy-toy who will do her bidding.
Why the hell do so many men think that putting up with this kind of passive-aggressive behavior is a normal part of marriage? It's no wonder Democrats are taking over the country.