But YOU think they're confused. What if THEY don't? If a lesbian knows she a woman who loves other women, how is she confused? Because you think she is? What you think is irrelevant in her situation because you don't get a vote in what she does in her private life.
How do I know she is confused? LOL! How does one know someone trying to drive a square peg into a round hole is confused?
How much more confused those trying to drive a hole of any shape into another hole of whatever shape, or those trying to drive a peg into another peg, must be.