Yah... I know what you mean. I lost my United "Premier Executive" status after I stopped flying every other week. The thing I miss the most is the seating preference. Always got good seats. 
 
Now that I'm not flying so much, I just don't rack up the miles. But I'm OK with it. Mostly. 
 
I've never even joined the Red Carpet Club. When I found out it was still non-smoking in there too... it just didn't seem to offer anything useful. Dunno. 
 
Flight's delayed. Neato. Time for another beer... 
 
[sip]