I don't know where you're from, but I said looking at a picture of a naked woman. Please show me where I said "HABITUALLY" looking at pictures. Anything done to excess is not good. But that's not what I was talking about in the posts YOU interjected yourself into. If it makes you feel good and morally superior to me, fine....I DON'T CARE..just don't twist my words.
Let's say Big Biker Bill said riding a mororcycle without a helmet was "fine," there's nothing wrong with it, it shouldn't be denied to someone if it makes them happy, and anyone who opposed it was not a real biker and had no self-image. Then someone says to Bill, "You say riding without a helmet is good," and his response is, "Well, I never said it's OK to do that habitually. Don't twist my words. I think we're having this conversation because you're an unsafe rider, and you protest too much. You probably ride drunk."
Big Biker Bill sounds like he's trying to weasel out of something, doesn't he? I guess it depends on what the definition of "helmet" is.
As for your question about my wife, if you'll review my posts to you about this issue you will notice that NEVER did I discuss what you do or don't do with your husband, or mention him. Though you brought it up, I would not do so, and in our discussions about life and death issues I have studiously avoided bringing in any family situations you have dealt with in the past. I will continue to hold to that standard, and I expect you to do the same. I will not be discussing any details of my sex life on this forum, so don't bother asking.