No,
it's about educating both genders about how they think...
and it started with a statement to the effect that men don't understand how women think on the subject.
I was simply giving insight...
It isn't about insecurity,
it's about value and trust....it's about knowing that what you have with them is very special and more than with anyone else....
And if a man looks at another woman with more interest and joy....even if it's just looking....
Well...The energy that goes into just the look is a dagger through many a woman's heart.
Not logical, just fact.
But it hurts, alot.
Just information. (granted, I am extremely cynical and have a dark view of a lot of things ;))
Oh, as for my boss,
I have the best one in the world....
Employees though, is another story.
However, I didn't fantasize....I kept excellent records, was patient and persistant and got her butt booted out the door.
I didn't waste anytime on imagination.
Just like a rotten spouse I guess. :)
There ya go. That's very well put.
And if a man looks at another woman with more interest and joy....even if it's just looking....
Well...The energy that goes into just the look is a dagger through many a woman's heart.
Not logical, just fact.
Forgive me for saying so, but that's what I meant by paying for a woman's insecurity.
Heterosexual men really, really like to look at women. It makes us very, very happy to see women. But since many women are insecure, they misunderstand and see this as a threat. And they punish their men for it.
Women want all men in the world to want them, and only them. Because of their insecurities.
I didn't waste anytime on imagination.
Waste time on imagination? Do you mean that?
I think perhaps this is an important difference of opinion, relevant to this discussion. To me, fantasy is a free, fun form of entertainment. A very *good* thing, to be encouraged.
YMMV, I'm sure.