[beezdotcom]

I wasn't using a specific verse.

Sorry, I was referring to the specific verse you quoted in Post 244

I don't disagree with most of your point, in that God is our judge, and that heavy-handed tactics aren't often useful. However, Christians ARE to hold each other accountable. I agree that the other poster is being too self-righteous, and rather indiscriminate in the targets (it's hard to hold non-Christians accountable to Christian standards), choice of words, and methods - but the underlying point about pornography is mostly valid.

[arizonarachel]

I never disagreed with her initially, until she started being really crazed with her ranting. For instance, this was her last response to me:

I am a Christian who thinks the voes to cleave only onto him or her as long as you both shall live are real vows. You don't. Porn is cheating. Anything that involves not turning to your spouse is.

I mean, it's one thing to hold our brothers and sisters to a certain standard, I'm all for it, but it's clear she is on a rampage of some sort and not listening to any reason. I hope I didn't seem too sarcastic towards you, but I'm frustrated and, quite frankly, hurt that another woman who is supposedly "In Christ" would be so hurtful towards another. I don't think porn is right, or good, and I do think it is sinful, but come on. She just told me that I don't take my marriage vows seriously.

She reminds me of those "Baptists" that protest military funerals because of homosexuals.