On the subject of porn, many women are addicted also, in the form of smarmy romance novels.
Men may be visually stimulated, but publishers feed a female lust for verbal porn, which is every bit as mesmerizing.
There's a well known so-called "conswervative" on this very board whose wife supplements his income with her published romance porn, and he sure doesn't want you to know about it!
The vast majority of abusers are into porn.
I'm more against men who cheat than people who watch porn. Anyone that cheats for that matter.