I'm not into porn at all, and pray that my husband isn't tempted by it, but to say things like "no decent man would EVER" look at porn is crazy. Men are visual, and they look at things. They are constantly under attack to disobey God and sometimes they fail. They are falliable, just like we are, when we women think we are high and mighty and "above" others.
If you're husband is ever into it leave him before the beatings start.
Real men who are married stay with their wives. Cow dung turns to porn.
I listen to Dr. Laura a lot, and some woman called in about her husband looking at porn to get himself stimulated, and so everyone was thinking how awful the guy was, but then he came BACK on the phone and pointed out that she lays there and fantasizes about other men to get herself stimulated....so he felt that the way he got himself ready was okay, and actually Dr. Laura did too.