It sounds like you and your wife are normal.
But advertising for anal sex ... and photographing oneself with an erection hundreds of times may just not be normal.
Never got into the 'hershey highway' stuff. No pix's as well. And yes, I do buy stuff for her from Victoria's Secrets. The flannel sleepware is cuddly.
I don't think anyone here is saying that nut is normal or ok. We are getting a kick out of the hysterical people on this thread though! :)