Your outrage has unbalanced you and caused you to miss my point. Let's assume that some man's wife is not so great at, ummm..."lewinsky's". And he really enjoys a good "lewinsky". Wouldn't they BOTH benefit from her learning to do that better? He wouldn't have a need to watch a "pro" do it on a tv screen, imagining that it was being done that way to him, and she wouldn't feel that he was searching for new talent (the anxiety and fear you would feel if you caught your spouse/boyfriend watching porn).
There, mods, was that tame enough?
Words fail.
I PRAY YOU ARE NOT MARRIED!
Poor wife of yours if you are. Has a husband who hates her.