"They fight for us in the MIdEast, demonstrated against terror, wrote editorials, and generally stay put and not kill people."
The do not fight for us. They fight for themselves. In the cases of the few Muslim countries that are currently on our side in this, their ruling classes fear the mob and use us to remain in power or as a bulwark against their regional enemies.
They are NOT our friends and allies in the normal meaning of the words - and they far more frequently demonstrate FOR terror than against.
Tell that to the Iraqis and Afghanis. Tell that to the family of Lance Corporal Jabron Hashmi and Hatim Kathiria.