Thank you for your dose of sanity. Happy 4th!
Dark,
I completely agree with what you've said and it is consistent with my experience. However, what you're missing is the authority aspect. Males who are seeking counseling as well as HS males are rarely motivated to have sex because the woman is exercising her authority over them. They're (and me) just horn dogs. There are 2 HS teachers that, had they approached me, I'd still be smiling 30 years later!,-} Didn't happen tho'.
Girls, however, attach an emotional aspect. And the male teacher/coach/therapist plays on the authority/counselor/leader of the situation. Girls are rarely (although sometimes) motivated by sex, unlike the boys. Therefore, they are much more vulnerable and the abuse is much worse. I could go on, but my pizza just arrived!!! But Dark, note that you are right, but it's the abuse of authority that is the main theme, I would think. Have a good 4th!