Yes you are correct, that approach is important...but approach on any thread, for any reason, whether someone is talking to you directly or not. is important...
Frankly I see nothing offensive in what I said, I merely pointed out that any post is fair game...and oh yes, I questioned why someone keeps posing the same question to someone who has already said, that they are not going to answer...
Seems to me, a refusal to answer should just be accepted...
It would seem to be the Christian thing to do, particularly when it comes to a persons faith.