In other news, just chatting with the Mrs. on her way back from Northern Virginia. After having a chance to be away a couple of days and think things over, she's convinced Nana's problem is (perhaps the early stages of) dementia.
Wife just had a long conversation with Nana about something she accused Sister Mary Hamburner of doing. Wife said "Mom, you told me about this three weeks ago when YOU did it."
Whether or not that's the case, the immediate need is that we can no longer leave her alone with Luke. At least not for the whole day. Fortunately for next week anyway, Jr. isn't working since the waterpark is closed except for weekends after Sunday.
So, there's that.
Oh dear... dementia or attention seeking? Some of both?
I don't have any advice...but what OT and Hair have said makes sense.
I know none of these decisions are easy. If they weren't hard enough just on an emotional level, there's also costs to consider and everything else. It's rough.