Now I'm an "aggressively independent whiny materialist feminist"?
Kewlness...
ROFLOL!!!
Now that's funny!!
we've always known that about you...
Alas. What a stupid thread that has turned out to be.... You're tangling with emotionally immature dweebs with so little grounding in reality that they actually think that a 'wife' is a submissive little Ann Coulter look-a-like slave who'll keep the house clean and put out daily on demand. They're better off hiring a maid and/or 'ho - at least until they figure out there's more to a real marriage, a real ~relationship~, than that. Their fixation on a fantasy is sad, scary, and sick. Skip 'em and skip those threads.