This is actually an issue between the mother-to-be and her doctor. Whether it be weight gain, tobacco, alcohol or caffeine.
My OB was more concerned about my caffeine intake than anything and I hate decaf coffee. So we compromised, I could have 2 cups of regular coffee, but no other caffinated beverages. To this day I rarely ever have more than 2 cups of coffee. Smoking was mentioned only one time, and when I was going to my 20th reunion, she told me to go ahead and have a couple glasses of wine.......I was over 8 months pregnant :)
Even though you had your baby many years later than mine you were not caught up on the insanity of the day.
xxx ooo to your little one.