I have a retriever club friend who has three Labs - all girls. One is the daughter of one of the others. They all get on fine, and the girl who's in active field work gets along fine with Shelley.
What's your experience with boys versus girls?
Likewise, My male was pretty strong in the testosterone, but he was made to get along just fine with the other male lab I showed with, we spent too much time together to have it otherwise.
If you're going to spay/neuter it makes less difference, but much as intact males can be challenging for their attention, at least they're consistent.... I wouldn't try to compete in sport with an intact female for anything... they're too worthless when in heat :~).