No one is saying that anymore than because she was a stripper she deserves to be raped. But both put themselves in dangerous situations. Strippers are at high risk for rape and murder. It is not rich, but that this cold comfort when you are dead or hurt from sexual assault. Similarly, whether someone, particular those with a lot to lose, bring shady people into their world such as strippers or escorts, they put themselves at risk of being the victim of a con scheme or violence. What is happening is not fair, but acknowinging that fact won't put their lives back to the way they were.