I don't know either player. I haven't talked to either player.
I do know that inquires into the DC/Georgetown prior incident with Finnerty show it was very minor. The victim stated that Finnerty didn't call him any names. The victim also was NOT gay and the police officer that made the report didn't think it was gay bashing. Gay was used as a term like teenagers call their friends. It can mean sentimental, caring, or an unusual interest in floral displays.
The Police in that area said there are at least 10 of these type citations written each night in that highly populated area so popular with young people.
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The word gay is used for so many things, like, "Why don't you go to the library and study." "No, thats soooo gay."