I've been trying to define what it is I am competitive, or proud of, about.... because there is something. :~D I do compare myself to other horse owners I know and want to see myself as among the best of them at what I do.
My horse is not the most in shape or the most rugged, in fact, as you know, I'm contantly worried about him.
And brag about him as I might, he's not most finely trained or the prettiest, at least any more, with his big ole sway back and his stubbornness about sidepassing or standing still to wait on trail. He's not easy to handle always, but I think he gives me his best. And I don't look good on a horse any more, I'm too pudgy to have my equitation be the first thing anyone would notice.
I take pride in his care, in the fencing and accomodations they all get, and at his grooming when we go... and I take pride in horsemanship that keeps everyone safe, if not the most adventurous. I take pride in doing things the right way, and in good trail ettiquete.
Heh... it's the stuff that I am most proud of that makes me conflict when riding with someone like Tiff, who never gives any of that stuff a second thought, as she cuts off through unknown terrain at full speed with a cigarette and a beer in her hand. Takes deep breath :~\
Those are all very good things to take pride in doing.
Becky