Wow! I gotta get over there and see what y'all are talking about.
I think that's bunk, really, though I haven't said so on the thread (yet). 100 years ago, a horse was a tool, and if he had problems, he'd be shot. Today, our horses are luxuries and pets (sorry Becky, forgive the usage) and we pay far more attention to their health, welfare and comfort than they did 100 years ago. True, there are still an awful lot of neglect cases and igorant owners, but I think in general, the state of the horse has never been better.
I'm chit-chatting with the ones that are responding to me. I'm still hoping someone will give me some constructive advice on Bay, but I don't think my post was interesting for them. And I'm not sure what I want to hear, really. Yes I do. I want to hear that I'm doing right by my horse and that I don't have to worry so much. I don't think I'm gonna get that. :~D