[Irish_Thatcherite]

I understood that to mean that within reason, what I had done in my past was to stay there, except for the lessons I had learned, and I decided that for me, it was most likely better that I apply that in my relationships in the future.

You can't judge someone by their past when the individual changes his ways.

[Monkey Face]

I think that's what the guy was trying to tell me...maybe...

[Knitting A Conundrum]

Philosophizing about growth is always an interesting business...hello!