[HairOfTheDog]

Obviously if she's already accepted the proposal, you aren't really seeking permission!

At least with Tzeitel and Motel
They asked me, they begged me
But now, if I like or not
You'll marry him!
What do you want from me?
Go on! Be wed!
And tear out my beard
And uncover my head
Tradition
They're not even asking permission
From the papa
What's happening to the tradition?
One little time, I pulled out a thread
And where has it led Where has it led?
Where has it led? To this!
A man tells me he's getting married!
He doesn't ask me, he tells me.

[RosieCotton]

Ha! I just had that running through my head!