I'd go with the middle set.
I agree. I like the middle set with the cream color. They look light and feminine. Curtains should be background material and not stick out, imo. So I might actually go with the 3rd set, without the hanging thing, if you have a lot of pictures or decorations on the wall (I think they are showing the dark curry color?). The 3rd one would be good if you had to block out the sun, but it could make the room look too dark, if not. I have just plain light green curtains in my house. But my house is very cluttered!
LOL! I'll bet that didn't help at all. Can't wait to find out what you choose!