I asked a lot of people this question once-If someone says"I am very concerned about HIV and thus I will wear a condom",would you have sex with them?Almost all said yes.
Then I asked,what if someone said"I am going to use a condom since I am HIV positive",would you have sex with them?
Almost all said no to the latter question.
That's life!
So does that mean those who are HIV should lie so they can indulge? Is this selfish, or what?